Grave Site
Memorial Article
Kevin Paul Bons was born 16 Jul 1962 at Ft. Bragg, NC, the second of six children of LT Paul M. ’58 and Elaine J. Bons. Like many Army brats, he spent his youth traveling from place to place. Twice his father’s assignments took Kevin to West Point; the first time as a small boy and later as a teenager, when his father became permanent faculty. He joined the Long Gray Line with the Class of ’83 in the summer of ’79, eager for the challenges and traditions but confidently knowing that West Point was already his home. Family and friends remember him as a fun-loving, guitar-playing young man who played Joseph in the musical “Joseph and His Technicolor Dream Coat” in high school. When he was ten years old and his father was stationed in Washington state, Kevin bravely rescued his younger brother after the two became trapped against a cliff as the tide came into Puget Sound. The incident was chalked up to experience, though he later became a certified scuba diver in pursuit of a childhood dream—to become the greatest marine biologist since Jacques Cousteau. Kevin was active in Boy Scouts, took the Scout Oath seriously and lived by the Scout Law, earning the rank of Eagle Scout. An outstanding scholar in high school, he was elected to the National Honor Society and graduated fourth in his class. His classmates at James I. O’Neill High School, in Highland Falls, NY, described Kevin as “Smart as a whip and as straight as an arrow. He was the kind of guy you sat behind or next to in the tough classes because you could always count on him to help you out.” He sought and received an appointment to West Point, intent on following in his father’s footsteps and anxious to serve his country as an Army Officer. We found his friendship infectious and helpful in easing the stress of cadet life—particularly during that first and most difficult year.
Kevin, like many of us at that age, was full of ambition, dreams and uncertainty. As a plebe, he serve on the Ring and Crest Committee to put his artistic talents to work designing our class crest, the first in USMA history to have a lighting bolt, thus forever making his mark on us as well as on the Academy. Assigned to Company I-3, he became the company mascot, the Polar Bear of Igloo-3, and cheered us on at games and rallies with his often wild antics. After our class shuffled, he found himself in the 4th Regiment, again making new friends and once again bringing us together as classmates.
Kevin joined the ghostly assemblage well before graduation and while we were still at the tail end of the Long Gray Line nearly 30 years ago. Many in our class already had embarked on Christmas Leave when Kevin left us. He was serving as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter-Day Saints, in Suriquina, Bolivia, high in the Andes Mountains. His mission work introduced him to the Aymaran Indians near Lake Titicaca, and he helped build homes and spread the word of Christ among the primitive mountain peoples. Apparently, Kevin and a fellow missionary were returning from a compo (a discussion) late at night when they fell into a water-filled sinkhole in the pitch-black mountains. Soaking wet at an elevation of 14,000 feet, both were freezing cold as they made their way back to their room in the chapel. One of them turned on the stove for warmth but apparently forgot to open a window. At that altitude, the oxygen in the small room was rapidly depleted by the stove’s flame and both men were asphyxiated as they slept. Kevin’s buddy made one last entry in his journal: “We’ve got to remember to bring a flashlight next time.” Th e announcement of Kevin’s death was made in Washington Hall, at lunch, early in the second semester of our Cow year. “Gloom Period” was unusually somber that year as we learned that the first of our class-mates had joined the ghostly assemblage. We are comforted knowing Kevin died as he had lived, helping others. He was a very religious man and always treated others as he wished to be treated, often providing us with a comforting word when times were tough. Th at he chose to help his fellow man by spreading God’s word is a testament to his character and undoubtedly touched many more lives than we will ever know. His death in that far off land had an immediate effect on the native Aymaran Indians, as hundreds of them stood to be baptized shortly after his death, believing that Kevin’s death was a sign from God.
We will remember Kevin as one of those rare people who always thought of others first. It was instinct with Kevin. He didn’t have to think about helping others. He just did it. He never had a bad word to say, did not judge others, and never forced his own opinions or views on anyone but always was willing to share so that others would have the benefit of his experiences. Although it sounds trite, the world really lost a nice guy and a great friend on that fateful day.
Kevin was laid to rest at West Point, his home in death as in life. He is buried next to Astronaut COL Edward H. White, in view of the Anderson Fountain and the Old Cadet Chapel. Many of us visited his final resting place before we graduated, seeking solace before we embarked on our journeys from West Point. We still continue to “check in” with him when we can and make progress reports on our lives, knowing that he waits to greet us when it is our turn to join the ghostly assemblage of the Long Gray Line.
Well done, Kevin, Be thou at peace.
—COL Will G. Merrill III ’83, classmate and friend