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Lori Lynn Good Loucks, the daughter of Lieutenant Colonel Lee and Ardis Good, was born March 1, 1960 in Brookings, SD. Lori graduated from Buchholz High School in Gainesville, FL in 1977. An accomplished scholar athlete, she applied for and won a coveted congressional appointment to West Point.
In July 1977, Lori began her West Point adventure as a plebe with the Class of 1982. After plebe year, she took a leave of absence and enrolled at the University of Florida. She returned to West Point in 1979, rejoining company G-1 as a member of the Class of 1983.
Burning the midnight oil on a regular basis, Lori did well academically. She soon fell in love with the law and set her sights on becoming an attorney after graduation. When not studying, Lori was happiest to be out running as a member of the Marathon Club, frequently making the 12-mile roundtrip run to Bear Mountain Bridge. Always in motion, she participated in a multitude of activities, including the Protestant Chapel Choir, West Point Forum, and the Domestic Affairs Forum. When it seemed that she could not be any busier, Lori would always spare a moment to talk. Her easy, friendly smile and infectious laugh touched all of her friends. Lori never let the seriousness of West Point get in the way. During firstie year, Lori enjoyed all the formal traditions, such as 100th Night and receiving her class ring. Most importantly, she was excited to earn a commission as a second lieutenant in the Military Police branch.
After completing the Military Police Officer Basic Course at Fort McClellan, AL, Lori’s first assignment was with the 194th Military Police Company in Heilbronn Germany, a subordinate unit of the 385th Military Police Battalion, headquartered in Kornwestheim, Germany. One of the highlights of her year was leading her platoon in the Nijmegen Marches in the Netherlands. An outstanding junior officer, Lori immediately drew the attention of her superiors and was promoted rapidly to the position of battalion adjutant. She looked back fondly on her S-1 role as the highlight of her military career.
The 194th’s operating locations included Schwäbisch Gmünd, Germany, a short drive away from Cooke Barracks in Goppingen, where Tim Loucks was stationed with the 4-16th Infantry Battalion. While assigned to the 194th, she and Tim (both “Proud to Be ’83” classmates) met “again.” They shared a wonderful courtship in Germany among lifelong friends and enjoyed many adventures skiing and travelling throughout Europe. (Tim will never forget the time Lori got the stern, young East German soldier to smile when they visited East Berlin!) These times were characterized by endless laughter and fun among a very tight group of friends. One of those lifelong friends from Germany observed, “All of us made the others laugh, especially when it was at another’s expense. We worked hard and we played hard sometimes too hard. But one vivid overall impression I have of Lori is the way she enjoyed being a part of that hilarious camaraderie.”
Upon their return from Germany, Tim and Lori were married in the Old Cadet Chapel at West Point on October 10, 1987. After resigning her commission in 1988, Lori decided to pursue her lifelong dream to become an attorney. She enrolled at Northwestern University’s law school, where she subsequently graduated with distinction in 1991. After graduation, Lori passed the Connecticut bar exam on her first attempt and joined the law firm of Louden & Forzani in Hartford, CT as an associate practicing family law. Lori was greatly admired by the managing partners for her writing, research and analysis skills.
In 1992, Lori and Tim relocated to Ticonderoga, NY, and Lori took a break from the law to start their family, giving birth to their son, Aaron, in April 1993. Lori and Tim subsequently moved to Racine, WI, where Lori gave birth to their daughter, Kathryn, in April 1995. Lori dedicated the next 10 years to her life’s passion of raising her two beautiful children.
In the spring of 2001, Lori accompanied one of her best friends to Vietnam to help her adopt a daughter. During the trip, Lori was able to travel to the small hamlet where her father had been seriously wounded during the Vietnam War. She sent back many pictures and videos of the trip, which was one of the highlights of her life.
Lori passed away on April 21, 2005 in Baltimore, MD. We lost a beautiful, bright light. Lori Lynn Loucks said goodbye for the last time, leaving a hole in the hearts of everyone who had the privilege to know her. Lori’s kind and joyous spirit, her tenacity and passion for those she loved and her incredible generosity for those in need infected everyone around her.
“If you ever need a running partner or someone to just listen, she would be there. The sun she brought will never be forgotten.” — 1983 Howitzer
Classmate Chris Thropp says, “More than anything else, I will always remember Lori’s laugh. It was deep and genuine. It was infectious and rewarded you for being funny. I know that towards the end of her life there may not have been that kind of laughter, and I feel lucky that all I have in my mind’s eye is the memory of her laughing so hard and enjoying herself so much. That is the way I will remember her always, and for that I am grateful.”