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In the course of our busy lives, we often neglect to honor those classmates who have left us with fond memories of happy times spent in their presence and those who have left us with more than just memories. Barry Strope—loyal son, brother, classmate and friend—leaves us a legacy from which we can derive strength and inspiration. We can remember him as an exemplar of tenacity in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds. Were we to confront our daily problems, which somehow seem so much less significant, with the memory of Barry’s struggle for his life in mind, his legacy to us would be complete. Barry’s contribution is one for which we truly owe him a debt of gratitude. He personified the ideals of courage and selflessness for which West Point so resolutely stands.
Barry Todd Strope was born 9 May 1961 in Helena, Montana, the son of Philip and Rosemarie Strope. He grew up in Helena and attended Capital High School, graduating in 1979. An honors student, he was intensely active and earned varsity letters in gymnastics, cross-country, and tennis. His greatest passion was skiing, and he raced for several years as a member of the Belmont Ski Team. He was an enthusiastic bicyclist, water-skier and swimmer. He had a great interest in politics and participated in numerous youth government activities. His father was a prominent attorney as well as a brigadier general in the Air National Guard, and his uncle was the USMA orthodontist. It was not surprising, therefore, that Barry developed an interest in pursuing an appointment to West Point and earned a nomination from Senator Paul Hatfield.
Arriving at West Point in the summer of 1979, Barry immediately disabused us of the notion that Montana’s gifts are limited to spectacular scenery and unspoiled lands. No matter how arduous the task or unreasonable the demands of our upperclass tormentors, Barry was quick to demonstrate the resourcefulness with which he confronted all challenges. That quality would be put to the test in what would become the greatest challenge of his life.
Barry’s zest for living found admirers in his H-4 classmates of plebe year and continued when he was an upperclassman in C-3. Confronted with the increasing demands of cadet life, Barry thrived in the classroom and on the “fields of friendly strife.” His concentration was economics, and his academic prowess combined with remarkable versatility as an athlete to facilitate his emergence as a paragon of the “whole man” concept. He ambitiously competed in intercollegiate gymnastics, cycling, and ski racing. His leadership was quickly recognized and won him the captainship of the ski team during his second and first class years, and he earned the William F. Little, III Ski Racing Award for outstanding performance. He graduated 25 May 1983 and was enroute to flight school with a commission in field artillery.
During his first class year, Barry revealed to some of his closest friends that he was suffering severe back pain. That so few people were aware of this is a testament to his courage. He complained to no one, despite the discomfort that intensified throughout the year. As graduation drew near, Barry could hardly attend classes, and concentrating on academics became exceedingly difficult. He sought medical treatment, but it was not until a week after graduation that he was diagnosed with a rare brain and spinal cancer.
Barry spent the next year as a patient at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, DC. During that year, the courage Barry displayed was remarkable. The summer of 1983 found the rest of us celebrating graduation, marrying and reporting to our basic courses. As we began our careers in the profession of arms, Barry’s battle was already joined. It was as if he had finally identified his enemy—the cause of his pain the previous year—and could now set out to destroy it. His weapons were his sheer strength of will and drugs whose side effects often would leave him incapacitated. He underwent months of exhaustive treatment, and it appeared he had defeated the cancer. Incredibly, within two years he was skiing again.
Interrupted though it was by periods of medical treatment and convalescence, Barry’s military career was characterized by the same level of performance with which he concluded his cadet career. Re-branched engineer, he served with distinction during assignments with the 11th Engineers at Fort Belvoir, Virginia and on an experimental project at Fort Hunter-Liggett, California. He was promoted to first lieutenant on 25 November 1984 and to captain on 1 May 1987. Optimistically, Barry anticipated a subsequent assignment in Germany.
Early in 1989, Barry experienced a recurrence of his cancer. He was treated again at Walter Reed and eventually placed on temporary medical retirement. He spent most of the next year, the remainder of his life, at his family’s home in Helena, Montana and at Flathead Lake. Sadly, the cancer inside him was too much for the chemotherapy and even for Barry’s own strength and willpower. He died early the morning of lOFebruary 1990 at the age of 28. He is survived by his mother, three sisters, a grandmother, and many friends who remember him fondly.
We are often reminded in the military profession that death can be quick and unexpected. With Barry, we witnessed how slow and tortuous that process can be. We can never begin to understand the pain he endured. Instead, he treated us to smiling enthusiasm, confidence and optimism. Knowing Barry as we did, we do not underestimate the degree to which he fought on against a relentless enemy. This enemy, however, eventually weakened him beyond his power to rally. We are left to wonder if we could persevere to an equal extent in the face of such adversity. In a less extraordinary context, Barry’s death inspires us to confront life’s everyday challenges as tenaciously as he confronted similar challenges and, ultimately, the challenge of his life. That, we are certain, is Barry’s gift to us.
Barry, your legacy of courage lives on with your grateful classmates and loving family and friends. May you always know that, in a very special way, the end of your life signals the beginning our ours.
Our love, respect, and admiration remain with you into eternity. Rest peacefully, our friend.